At home in Rabat

Morocco has now closed most things, and I am here for the long term. So here is a post about where I am staying and what it is like. I will return to posts about Rabat next week.

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This is the main living area, with an archway to the front door at the right, beside the wooden door to the stairs to the upper storeys. Shoes have to be taken off at the entrance. The door just showing at the extreme right is to my room.

The house is in the middle of the large Medina and was built about 120 years ago, though the Medina is much older. It looks as though this area was all rebuilt about the same time. It is down a small alley with 3 front doors on it, off a minor street which in about 20 yards leads to the main street in the Medina for all types of food and household product ‘shops’. The ‘shops’ are large kiosks really, which you stand at the front of.

The general plan of all the houses is a central courtyard with the rooms arranged around it. In this house the courtyard has a pitched glass roof, and that is the only natural light. So the rooms are quite dark. It can be quite cold inside the house at this time of year, and they all wear more clothes inside than we normally do in England. I expect it is nice and cool in the summer though. It has been cloudy with occasional rain lately, and the house has got even colder. It will warm again when the sun re-emerges.

This photo shows about two-thirds of my room. The bed is very comfortable.

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There are two other main rooms off the central one, as well as a small kitchen and a communal toilet. Upstairs there are 2 more rooms and a shower room. Up more stairs is the roof terrace, which is arranged round the glass roof. At this time of year it is only used for drying the washing. In any case it is quite small. All the stairs are very steep, have slippy tiles and no hand rails, so coming down them in slippers is an interesting experience. All floors and walls with patterns on are tiled. The washing machine is on a turn in the stairs.

One of the rooms is used for praying, and also when lots of people are round; the others are mainly used as bedrooms.

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All meals are taken by everyone at this low table, which has a sofa on each of 2 sides. This is breakfast, and Assia (my host) has the essential basket of bread at her right hand.

This is the only table in the house, and there are no chairs as such, just sofas with cushions.

The house has been in Assia’s family for many decades (possibly since it was built), but was rented out until 2 or 3 years ago, when it came into Assia’s possession and she decided to be an AirBnB host. Apparently it needed much restoration.

Assia is married, but has no children. Until she moved in here she lived with her mother, Fatima (74), in the main family home about a 5 minute walk away. She has 5 sisters and  6 brothers, so the family house is presumably quite large.

There is also some sort of farm in the north east of Morocco at Tetouan, and Jamel, Assia’s husband, has been there with 2 of her brothers since before I arrived here. Jamel has just arrived here. Assia is either not allowed to be alone here or just doesn’t like to be alone, so her youngest sister, Havsa, brother in law Yassin and their sons Abderrahmen (13) and Soufiane (10) have been sleeping and taking most of their meals here since before I arrived.

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Here are the boys with Abderrahmen’s favourite item, an electric bike which only works with electricty; it is not an electrified push bike. He is very upset today as his parents have banned him from riding it outside due to the virus.

Of Assia’s other siblings, one sister lives in Madrid, one sister and brother live in Paris, and one sister (with husband and, at least, a teenage son & daughter) live with Fatima. The rest live somewhere in the Rabat area.

This is a middle class family. Yassin works as a programmer for the Customs, can afford a car and to send both boys to private schools. Everyone I have met so far speaks at least a little French, and Havsa and Yassin speak good English. The boys started French at age 3, and English at age 7.

The family is quite religious, and the women will not remove their headscarves except in the presence only of close blood relatives.

I am now having all my meals with the family. Breakfast is at 9.00 am now, but was at 7.00 am when the schools were open, as school starts at 8.15 am. Breakfast varies, but always includes bread, mint tea, olive oil, cheese (in the form of spreadable cheese triangles or similar) and jam. In the photo we had eggs ‘scrambled’ with onion and garlic, but every day is different, with a wide variety of Morrocan ‘pancakes’ which are really very flat breads made with lots of olive oil and different types of flour. ‘French bread’ also features sometimes, as I said I liked it a lot. There are also many different varieties of bread, all excellent. It is served with mint tea. I have a special teapot, as I prefer it made without sugar.

Lunch is about 2.00 pm and is usually the main meal of the day. Today was a variety of vegetables and chunks of beef, with other vegetables on the side. Always, of course served with bread. The most used item in the kitchen is a pressure cooker. I am provided with a plate and cutlery, but everyone else uses their hands and the bread to eat from a central dish. Often this is served with home made lemonade – which seems to be straight lemon juice and sugar. Made with their own lemons from Tetouan.

About 8.00 pm (or sometimes later) is the 3rd meal of the day. Apart from the bread, there may be harira (a spicy vegetable soup with some vermicelli and chickpeas) or a potato and cheese bake, or any other light(ish) dish. Then there are cakes and pastries, all with a high honey or sugar content, and all delicious. Sometimes these appear at breakfast as well. Another excuse for mint tea.

If anyone calls round (presumably no more with the virus around), it is an excuse for more cake and mint tea, whatever the time of day.

My main problem is that, although I am a paying guest, Moroccan hospitality insists that any guest get the best and most of all food.

Until the football matches were cancelled, the TV was on most of the time, showing football from all the main European Leagues. Now it is usually only on in the evenings, when it changes from BBC News, to French News, to (occasionally) Moroccan News.

There is an excellent internet connection, with an interesting place to keep the router.

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The house is rarely quiet as everyone has a mobile phone, and many many relatives and friends to talk to. Moroccan Arabic makes it seems to me that they are often quarrelling, but they assure me that is not true. The only problem seems to be keeping all the phones charged. If you are female, the headscarf is useful as the phone can be securely tucked inside by the ear, leaving the hands free for the household tasks, eating etc.

Keep yourselves well.

 

 

Posted by Victoria Doran

I have been retired since 2010 and have decided to go travelling the world for 18 months from January 2020.

My home is in West Kirby, Wirral, England

7 thoughts on “At home in Rabat”

  1. Fascinated to learn the detail of life with a totally different traditional culture. Less pressured I suspect. Is it more green?
    Here life continues under lockdown. The domestic controller escaped for a quick recce around Aldi at 8am this morning (before the yummy mums arrived post school run).Shelves battered, no wine but she managed her ration of 4 bottles of hand shower gel, no bleach or hand wash. Other shoppers furtively covering their faces with scarves & wearing rubber gloves (yes in the centre of Heswall). Schools about to close indefinitely.
    Boris on telly trying to look & act presidential but acting behind the curve . New buzzwords, rhetoric but experience dictates the devil will be in the detail of glib promises. Still as one door opens another one…. slams in your face.
    Nonetheless managed a breakout and went to Brimstage Brewery where after an on- line order, a case of Trappers Hat was loaded into the boot of my car …without human contact.
    The boss is worrying she cannot get any yeast in sachets for bread making, no flour available. Still maybe as post war there will be less obesity about.
    Must go, domestic chores to attend to. Will be in touch.
    Andrew

  2. Very interesting to learn about Moroccan life. So sorry things are not working as you planned but life is never as we expect it is it
    We were allowed to plant the two new beds on the station today but that’s it on the stations for now
    Still getting out with the dogs, Bramble was awful for Alan last week but been a good girl this week
    We have a much reduced park tidy on Sat I am asking for just 6 people so we can keep apart
    Jen and Sheila , Claire W, Wendy and Roy ( new volunteer) have worked very hard this week before a complete lock down happens
    Keep safe

  3. Thanks Victoria for a fascinating post on home life in Rabat. It sounds as if a little bit of central heating wouldn’t go amiss at the moment! Amazingly, we have a forecast of sun all day for the next 3 days,
    so I suspect just about everyone, who isn’t searching for food in the supermarkets, will be out and about whilst we still can.
    Keep safe and well.
    Jean

  4. I really love the house you are staying in. It looks very stylish and the food looks very good. Are you able to go outside or are you under isolation like some of us? I have 3 days left to go and some items of food running very low
    Stay safe and carry on enjoying life
    Gill

  5. Hi Victoria, it’s Liz from Barrk, you have been in my & Gordon thoughts, we were thrillrd by you Chridtmas message and planned journey around the world, which we know will continue to enthrall despite the current world situation, we hope you are safe, we are both dealing with it as is the rest of the world, be safe & take care…Liz

  6. Hi Victoria, thinking of you when your longed for journey is interruped by the covud 19, we hope u r safe, u know whete we r if u need us, Liz plus dogs

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